The children of a man who killed his wife in a psychotic episode, before taking his own life, have told the BBC they do not blame their father for what happened.

Chris and Ruth Stone-Houghton died in September 2022 at their home in Portsmouth.

An inquest found there had been a “failure to fully support” the family after Chris was discharged from a psychiatric hospital weeks earlier.

Their son Oliver said “we don’t need to forgive him. I never once questioned that it was anything other than his illness”.

The NHS trust in Hampshire has been approached for comment.

Chris and Ruth were loving and caring parents, Oliver and Abbie Stone-Houghton said, and devoted to one another.

“We had such a brilliant childhood, and even in their adult life we were so close with both of them,” explained Abbie.

Chris ran a jewellery business which Ruth had also worked in. He had no previous mental health issues but as the company struggled during the Covid pandemic, eventually closing in April 2022, he began to experience delusional thoughts.

He became increasingly paranoid, wrongly believing he was being listened to by his phone and computer, and terrified someone was out to get him. He became withdrawn, looked noticeably frailer and experienced suicidal thoughts.

“He didn’t feel like he had anything to offer anymore,” his son Oliver, now 30, remembered.

Chris was eventually diagnosed with psychotic depression, and in July 2022 attempted to take his own life.

He was sectioned and placed on a mental health ward at St James’ Hospital in Portsmouth, run by the local NHS trust, where the family believed he would spend several months.

Within four weeks, he was discharged back home against the family’s wishes. Ruth was “terrified” that her husband would further self-harm, the inquest heard.

Being a loving family worked against them, Oliver said, believing staff felt “they didn’t have to worry so much about him being returned home than perhaps in other cases”.

“We didn’t really get any advice on what to do, what not to do,” said Abbie. “We were just doing what we thought was right and just hoping for the best really.”

Consultant psychiatrist Dr Denzel Mitchell, who worked at St James’ Hospital, said the decision to discharge was made in large part because Mr Stone-Houghton had not self-harmed or had psychotic episodes on the ward.

Coroner Rachel Spearing found that though the decision was “appropriate”, the way it was carried out was “unsafe”, with an “inadequate risk assessment”.

Chris had a history of refusing anti-psychotic medication at home, and had to be cajoled into taking it in hospital. The family had not been fully supported given the burden placed on them to ensure he took his medication, Ms Spearing added.

She found it was “unlikely” he had taken his medication at the time of the deaths.

There had also been a lack of access to support, the inquest heard. Chris had not received psychological intervention in hospital, because the ward did not have a psychologist.

Once back home, his community crisis team twice asked for Chris to have early intervention for psychosis treatment, the best and quickest option available, but this was denied.

Chris was 66, and the NHS trust’s cut-off age was 65.

“Had he had that treatment, we don’t know what would have happened,” said Oliver.

Chris was instead placed on a year-long waiting list for specialised talking therapy support.

The plan was for the family to alert the crisis team if they noted signs of relapse, the inquest heard, but no formal carer’s assessment had been carried out for Ruth, 60, who looked after her husband.

On 14 September 2022, Chris killed Ruth at their family home in Portsmouth before taking his own life. Coroner Rachel Spearing concluded he was “in the likely grip of a psychotic episode”.

She said the deaths could not have been predicted, and that Chris and Ruth were a “loving and happy” couple.

Oliver and Abbie said they were “extremely close” as a family, and do not hold their father responsible for what happened.

“We both feel very strongly and know in our hearts,” said Oliver, “that [dad] wasn’t capable of this as a sane, rational person, and that it was the illness that had caused these events to happen in that way.

“We don’t let it affect our memories of them both.”

Hampshire and Isle of Wight Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust have been approached for comment.

At the inquest, Dr Charlotte Hope, representing the trust, said “as an organisation we are forever improving our services” and that “a lot” of changes had been made since the couple’s death.

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